About Woman in Progress
YOU ARE A WOMAN IN PROGRESS.
Maybe you’ve been so busy being there for everyone else that you’ve lost sight of yourself. Maybe you’re questioning what’s next, feeling stuck, craving change, or simply wondering if there is more for you. Maybe you know exactly what you want — you just don’t know where to begin.
Wherever you are right now, you belong here.
Woman in Progress was created for you — the woman who is still becoming, still learning, still growing and still figuring it all out. We believe you don’t need to have your whole life together to take your next step. You don’t need to become someone else. And you certainly don’t need to wait for the “perfect” time to start choosing yourself.
Your journey is yours. Your priorities are yours. Your version of a fulfilling life is yours.
We’re here to give you the encouragement, practical tools and community to pause, reconnect with yourself and move towards the woman you know you are capable of becoming.
Because growth doesn’t always look like a big, dramatic change. Sometimes it starts with one honest realisation. One brave decision. One small step. One moment where you finally say, “I want something different for myself.”
You are not behind.
You are not too old.
You are not too far gone.
And you do not have to figure it all out alone.
You are a woman in progress. And this is your journey.
5 Things a Woman in Progress tells herself (and the world) ...
About Rita Montalto
Founder, Woman in Progress Community
Life can go awry at any point.
That point arrived for me when my partner was diagnosed with Huntington's Disease (HD). HD switches off the neurons in your brain.
Its speed and progress vary, but the outcome is the same. Permanent Vegetative State.
John fought hard to help support his family. But finally, his condition deteriorated until he just wasn't him anymore. He needed to move into full-time care.
I found myself alone with two small kids and a mortgage
I was completely out of sorts. I lacked any kind of agency or control over anything.
To be honest, plenty of women do it harder than me. But I'm sharing my story to let you know that no matter your circumstances, you can take control of your life, but it all starts with you.
I found full-time work
My salary just about covers our bills, but it's a stretch.
Like a thousand other single mums, I had days when there was no money for petrol or topping up my travel card. Cue leaving home at 5 am to walk to my job in the city.
I could have borrowed money from friends or family. But I didn't want to burden people with my problems. In fact, I didn't want to speak to anyone about this.
In my mind, I got myself into this mess, and I needed to get myself out of it. I just had to deal with it!


I got fed up and angry (in a good way)
I was tired of watching people around me living what looked like the 'high life' or at least a life with petrol in their tanks. I worked hard; I'm a good human. It felt unfair and wrong.
I got angry in that healthy, motivating way that makes you think, 'Enough already,' I need to do something about how I'm living, and most importantly, I need to work on me.
I decided that my circumstances would not control me anymore. I would control them.
I started with my mindset. I lent my ears to a podcast called QOD every day. I read books on self-development, finance, and confidence.
I started running again
And this is my feel-good medication.
I'm not yet at the point where I can afford a gym membership. So, I found workouts on YouTube. Don't imagine me as a picture of health with an incredible figure (believe me, I am not.)
Runs and living room workouts make me happy and give me comfort and confidence. I know that I am looking after myself on my terms.
NOTE: Please don't start an exercise routine or take medication without speaking to your doctor.
I began to push 'pause' and be kind to myself
Life is crazy busy - a 'situation normal' for single mums. But doing fierce self-care, in all its forms, is a core commitment for a Woman in Progress.
So besides being a regular runner and a sometimes squash player, two high-energy activities that bring my body and mind together, I'm mindful of taking quiet 'switch off' moments wherever I find them.
Finally, I'm a fan of a perfectly made G&T.
I found a financial advisor
They've helped me get my superannuation and life insurance in order.
If anything happens to me, my children will be OK. Getting that sorted took a load off my mind.
I'm more conscious about budgeting and knowing which monthly bills I'll pay.
If I have money left over, I buy shares. I have a great contact who will say 'Yes' or 'No' to the shares I'm considering. The amounts don't matter. Some months I can invest $100, sometimes a bit more. It all adds up, and that, ladies….. is progress, tiny incremental steps for which 'Future You' will be grateful.

I launched this community
“The most difficult thing is the decision to act. The rest is merely tenacity. You can do anything you decide to do. You can act to change and control your life, and the procedure, the process is its own reward.”
Amelia Earhart
Pioneer Aviator
Woman in Progress, an empowerment community.
It's a place to help you get power over money, work, and well-being. But only if you really want it.
Because control comes with hard work, determination, and persistence. But I promise the payoff is worth it because you are.
About Rebecca O
Co-Founder, Woman in Progress Community
MY JOURNEY TO WOMAN IN PROGRESS
I’m a health and life coach, and a mum to three beautiful children.
Like many women, I grew up with strong values around generosity,
service and putting others first. I’ve always believed deeply in caring
for the people around me, and while the popular message of
“put yourself first” has its place, it never completely resonated
with me. I always felt there had to be another way —
a way to care for ourselves while continuing to care
deeply for the people we love, without feeling that one has to come at the
expense of the other.
When my first son was born, it was one of the happiest times of my life,
but it was also the beginning of one of the most difficult chapters
I would experience. Around the same time, my father became very
sick, beginning a battle that lasted for many years.
When he eventually passed away, I felt deeply shaken.
Losing him changed something within me and began a much
deeper journey of self-discovery, reflection and understanding who I was and what I wanted my life to look like.
For a while, life settled into a comfortable rhythm. Our two older children were at school and becoming more independent, and we finally had a little more space again — both physically and emotionally. Then our third child arrived, a beautiful, soul-shaking blessing who opened something deep within me that I hadn’t expected.
Alongside the overwhelming love and gratitude I felt, I found myself grieving the simplicity of my old life while still carrying the pain of losing my father. Old wounds resurfaced, and I began to recognise feelings I had spent years pushing aside. There was grief, guilt, exhaustion and, underneath it all, a quiet longing for something more.
Instead of continuing to push those feelings away, I gave myself permission to actually feel them. And in that honesty, I began to find clarity.
I realised that wanting more from life doesn’t mean you are ungrateful for what you already have. Wanting to grow doesn’t mean the people you love aren’t enough. And taking care of yourself doesn’t mean you have to stop caring for everyone else.
I began to see that life isn’t something we are meant to spend waiting to escape from. It is something we are meant to be present in — finding joy in the ordinary moments, appreciating what we have while still allowing ourselves to dream about what could be. Yes, dream big. Yes, travel, explore and chase the things that light you up. But don’t wait for “one day” to feel alive.
You deserve to feel nourished, fulfilled and whole in the life you are living right now.
That realisation became a huge part of why Woman in Progress was created.
We believe every woman matters, and every woman has something valuable to offer. We want to create a space where women feel seen, heard and supported — a place where you can be honest about where you are without feeling that you need to have everything figured out. Because none of us are broken.
Sometimes life bends us a little. Sometimes it changes us completely. Sometimes we lose our way, become overwhelmed, put ourselves last for too long, or simply reach a point where we know something needs to change.
And in those moments, we don’t need to be fixed. We need support. We need encouragement. We need connection. We need someone to remind us that there is still more ahead.
That is what Woman in Progress means to me.
It is about giving women permission to keep becoming — to care for themselves without guilt, to want more without apology, to embrace where they are while still moving towards where they want to be, and to know that they never have to navigate that journey alone.
Because you are not broken. You are becoming. You are a woman in progress.

